5 people that can ruin your relationship

Unfortunately, this is not so. Many intruders and outsiders can stray into your relationships.

Here are some meddlesome interlopers;

Your partner should be your best friend. Anyone else claiming to be a best friend is a counterfeit and poser.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve known them your whole life, they need to go. A shoulder to cry on becomes a body to sleep with. Keep them away.

That nice friend that loves to help and orders food for you all the time, that neighbour that cooks for you, that man that sends you money, all that has to stop.

Even if your partner is not concerned about it, you don’t know what hidden intentions the ‘nice’ person may have and you don’t want to feel indebted to them.

Many people like to announce to their exes or people they’ve been intimate with that they are now in a relationship, and can you blame them?

Keeping boundaries and letting them know you are off limits and inaccessible is one of the best things you can do.

Never underestimate the power of slay queens. If you know you are attracted to certain people online, the best thing isn’t to slide into their DMs but to mute or unfollow them – a word is enough for the wise.

You don’t have to be friends with your partner’s friends. It is a mistake to think that your partner’s friends like you or have your best interests at heart.

Ladies, take your girlfriends as far from your boyfriend as possible – don’t spark envy and jealousy in their hearts. Also, ladies don’t believe the things his friends say about him or the relationship.

This is not to say you should isolate yourself from your friends (especially in cases of abuse).

The point is, everyone should have their place in your life and in an ideal relationship, your partner comes first.